Let’s look at a story from business owner and investor Cody Sanchez.
See if you can spot what makes her story so memorable.
What happens when you hang out in rooms with other people who have way more zeros than you do is your problems are so small to them that, like, often they can see into your future. It’s a really weird thing.
And I remember back in the day, one of my mentors, David Osborne, who was like worth a hundred million at the time. I thought that was like the richest any human could be.
We were on a walk and he was like, “How much money do you have right now?” And I was like, “I don’t know. Probably like X. And let’s say I have 100K in the bank right now.” He’s like, “No, no. How much money exactly do you have in the bank?”
And I was like, “Well, I don’t know. I’d have to look.” He goes, “You have to look.”
He’s like, “How much money do you make a month?” And I was like, “Well, about this.” He’s like, “You don’t know exactly?” And I was like, “I also don’t know that.”
How much money do you spend? I also don’t know that.
And he goes, “Money is a cruel mistress. If you don’t pay attention to her, she will leave you for somebody else.”
And then I said, “Well, okay, let’s take that one step further. So, if all I have to do is follow my money, look at her, pay attention to her, and she’ll grow.”
And he said, “I can guarantee you if in one year from now, if you look at your money every single day and you look at your spendings and you look at your savings, and you think about an ability to grow both, one year from now, you will be richer.”
And I was like, “You guarantee?” And he’s like, “I guarantee.”
And that conversation changed my life because now I am at a point where I realize she is a cruel mistress, and so give her attention or she’ll leave you.
Cody could have just said, “Well, my mentor told me to track my finances,” but that would have been quite forgettable, right? Super boring.
Instead, she replayed the exact words of that moment.
Money is a cruel mistress. If you don’t pay attention to her, she’ll leave you.
Boom. Right? That’s what makes it stick.
The technique: share the dialogue.
Most great stories involve another person, a boss, a client, a friend, a mentor.
One of the easiest ways to make your story come to life is to include what they actually said in that key moment. What were the exact words?
So instead of saying, my manager was disappointed, say, my manager looked at me and said, “Why didn’t you ask for help?”
Or instead of saying, “My friend gave me some great advice,” say, “My friend looked at me and said, Phillip, you don’t need a new plan. You just need to follow your heart.”
Do you see the difference?
Dialogue adds life. It makes the story feel like it’s happening right now.
So the next time you tell a story, don’t just summarize the moment. Replay it. Let your audience hear the words that made it matter.